Where You Live Could Shape Your Marriage's Success

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For newlyweds, choosing where to settle down can significantly affect the success of their marriage. A recent study by the Institute for Family Studies highlights how the percentage of married couples in a region can influence family life, community support, and overall well-being.

Marriage Deserts vs. Marriage Gardens

The study, using 2020 Decennial Census data, identified areas with low and high marriage rates, labeling them ‘marriage deserts’ and ‘marriage gardens.’ In around 11% of areas studied, fewer than 33% of householders ages 15-64 are married, while in another 10%, at least 61% are married. These differences are not solely economic; they reflect cultural and social factors that shape marriage rates.

Impact of Community on Marriage

Living in a region with a high percentage of married couples offers numerous benefits. Spouses can enjoy a larger social network, more playmates for children, and a stronger support system during challenging times. The study notes that families often ‘vote with their feet,’ moving to areas that are more conducive to raising children.

Examples of Marriage Deserts

Marriage deserts exist even in affluent areas. For instance, Midtown and Lower Manhattan, despite being a major economic hub, have only around 24% of householders married. Similarly, the D.C. area and Hollywood have low marriage rates, with only 17% and 24% of householders married, respectively. These areas often have a high concentration of young adults, including recent college graduates, who are yet to marry.

Marriage Gardens Near Major Cities

Despite the presence of marriage deserts, there are many marriage gardens near major coastal cities. However, these are often found in surrounding suburbs rather than the cities themselves. The top 10 areas with the highest marriage rates are generally located in suburbs of Houston, Dallas, and Provo, Utah, as well as in New Jersey’s Lakewood Township, home to a large Orthodox Jewish population.

Personal Experience and Community Support

The author shares their personal experience of moving from a low-marriage area in New York City to a more supportive community. After having their first child, they relocated to a county where over half of householders are married. This move provided them with a strong support network, including a ‘meal train’ from friends and time with other local mothers.

Consideration for Newlyweds

While moving to a marriage garden may not always be the best choice, the study encourages couples to consider the local community when deciding where to live. Finding a place with a supportive network of married couples can make a significant difference in the quality of family life.

Source: Daily Wire